What is Nouthetic Coaching?

Nouthetic Coaching is Not New

Nouthesia - Greek Lexicon
1Corinthians 10:11 - [In Context|Read Chapter|Original Greek]
Now all these things happened unto them for ensamples: and they are written for our admonition, upon whom the ends of the world are come.
Ephesians 6:4 - [In Context|Read Chapter|Original Greek]
And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
Titus 3:10 - [In Context|Read Chapter|Original Greek]
A man that is an heretick after the first and second admonition reject;
Noutheteo - Greek Lexicon
Acts 20:31 - [In Context|Read Chapter|Original Greek]
Therefore watch, and remember, that by the space of three years I ceased not to warn every one night and day with tears.
Romans 15:14 - [In Context|Read Chapter|Original Greek]
AndI myself also am persuaded of you, my brethren, that ye also are full of goodness, filled with all knowledge, able also to admonish one another.
1Corinthians 4:14 - [In Context|Read Chapter|Original Greek]
I write not these things to shame you, but as my beloved sons I warn you.
Colossians 1:28 - [In Context|Read Chapter|Original Greek]
Whom we preach, warning every man, and teaching every man in all wisdom; that we may present every man perfect in Christ Jesus:
Colossians 3:16 - [In Context|Read Chapter|Original Greek]
Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom; teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord.
1 Thessalonians 5:12 - [In Context|Read Chapter|Original Greek]
And we beseech you, brethren, to know them which labour among you, and are over you in the Lord, and admonish you;
1 Thessalonians 5:14 - [In Context|Read Chapter|Original Greek]
Now we exhort you, brethren, warn them that are unruly, comfort the feebleminded, support the weak, be patient toward all men.
2 Thessalonians 3:15 - [In Context|Read Chapter|Original Greek]
Yet count him not as an enemy, but admonish him as a brother.

While the name is new, the sort of coaching done by nouthetic coaches is not. From Biblical times onward, God's people have coached nouthetically. The word itself is Biblical. It comes from the Greek noun nouthesia (verb: noutheteo). The word, used in the New Testament primarily by the apostle Paul, is translated "admonish, correct or instruct." This term, which probably best describes Biblical coaching, occurs in such passages as Romans 15:14: "I myself am convinced about you, my brothers, that you yourselves are full of goodness, filled with all knowledge, and competent to coach one another." In that passage, the apostle was encouraging members of the Roman church to do informal, mutual coaching, something that all Christians today should learn, as well. On the other hand, the leaders of a congregation are to coach nouthetically in a formal manner as a part of their ministry: "Now we ask you, brothers, to recognize those who labor among you, and manage you in the Lord, and coach you."

Nouthetic Coaching Embraces Three Ideas

Because the New Testament term is larger than the English word "counsel," and because it doesn't carry any of the "freight" that is attached to the latter term, we have simply imported the Biblical term into English. In that way, the full force of the Biblical concept of coaching may be set forth while avoiding the many contradictory connotations surrounding the English one. The three ideas found in the word nouthesia are confrontation, concern, and change. To put it simply, nouthetic coaching consists of lovingly confronting people out of deep concern in order to help them make those changes that God requires.

By confrontation we mean that one Christian personally gives counsel to another from the Scriptures. He does not confront him with his own ideas or the ideas of others. He limits his coaching strictly to that which may be found in the Bible, believing that "All Scripture is breathed out by God and useful for teaching, for conviction, for correction and for disciplined training in righteousness in order to fit and fully equip the man from God for every good task." (2 Timothy 3:16,17) The nouthetic coach believes that all that is needed to help another person love God and his neighbor as he should, as the verse above indicates, may be found in the Bible.

By concern we mean that coaching is always done for the benefit of the counselee. His welfare is always in view in Biblical coaching. The apostle Paul put it this way: "I am not writing these things to shame you, but to counsel you as my dear children." (1 Corinthians 4:14) Plainly, the familial nature of the word noutheteo appears in this verse. There is always a warm, family note to biblical coaching which is done among the saints of God who seek to help one another become more like Christ. Christians consider their coaching to be a part of the sanctification process whereby one Christian helps another get through some difficulty that is hindering him from moving forward in his spiritual growth.

By change we mean that coaching is done because there is something in another Christian's life that fails to meet the biblical requirements and that, therefore, keeps him from honoring God. All coaching -- Biblical or otherwise-- attempts change. Only Biblical coaches know what a counselee should become as the result of coaching: he should look more like Christ. He is the Standard. Biblical coaching is done by Christians who are convinced that God is able to make the changes that are necessary as His Word is ministered in the power of the Spirit. It is their hope to help every interested church develop a nouthetic coaching program that will be a blessing to all of the members of that congregation. The importance of such coaching in churches is underscored by the words of Paul as he described his ministry in Ephesus: "Therefore, be alert, remembering that for three years, night and day, I didn't stop coaching each one of you with tears." (Acts 20:31) The regularity and intense nature of Paul's counsel during his three-year ministry at Ephesus is emphasized by these words. If Paul found it necessary to coach nouthetically for that entire period, as he said, surely our churches need it, too.

Adapted from an article by Dr. Jay Adams
What is Nouthetic Counseling? - Institute For Nouthetic Studies